5.27.2007

THE DREADED BEEP

Hotmail has been down for most of today, and all I can think about every time I go to refresh the page to see if it's working yet, is the poor wife/girlfriend of the head tech guy who works for them who is now having her Memorial Day weekend ruined because her husband/boyfriend got paged and has to go find a computer, no matter where they are, and get this thing fixed.

5.25.2007

3 BRILLIANT THINGS

Though we didn't get an ultrasound today, we did get to hear our baby's heartbeat (according to an old wive's tale, at the rate of 151, it's a girl). We also talked to our doctor about some questions we had regarding different things like classes and doulas and such. She was great at answering them, so much so that when we left, Adrian made a point to say "she was his kind of doctor." It's good to be working with someone who fits our personalities, especially since we selected her from a random list of doctors our insurance sent us.

Then we picked up the mail, and there it was - a "Millionaire" postcard addressed to me. I waited until I was in the elevator with Adrian before turning it over. The first word I saw was "Congratulations!" and I started jumping up and down. Then the pre-printed message went on to say that I have been placed in the contestant player pool and that even though this was so, it did not guarantee me a spot on the show. It just upped my odds exponentially! Like I said before, I was happy passing the test, so all this is just icing on the cake. (Mark also got his Congrats postcard; we're waiting to see if Adrian's got lost in the mail.)

I haven't gotten a haircut since August and even while it's been growing, I knew in the back of my mind that I was going to cut it short eventually. It seems like lots of pregnant women do this (get the ole "mom" haircut), but I would have done it regardless. I just didn't know which salon to go to, and in New York picking one can be quite overwhelming. Plus, I'd been getting recommendations from all sorts of people, but none of them felt right until my friend Jillian told me she goes to Nick Arrojo's salon. That name might not ring a bell to you, but as an avid fan of TLC's "What Not to Wear," I know Nick well. He's the hairstylist associated with the show and though I wasn't planning on going to him (his haircut is $400), I decided to make the plunge and call his studio. I knew it was meant to be when the receptionist told me I would be working with Amanda. So today I chopped off all my hair and it feels fantastic. I've had chin-length hair before, but this cut seems somehow chicer than all those other times. I love it and know it will be perfect with all the summer traveling we are going to do - starting with Bermuda on Monday! (Oh, and out of around fourteen spots in the studio, Nick Arrojo was cutting the hair of the woman right next to me - AND he even smiled at me in the mirror when he walked by!) Simply brilliant.

5.17.2007

NO WONDERLAND

Every person has their own set of fears or paranoias - perhaps even ones that may seem far-fetched or odd. One of mine has always been to avoid any sort of grate or metal covering found in city sidewalks. I've always thought that all it takes is a rusty hinge or an employee who's in too much of a hurry to lock the door properly - and down I go. In San Francisco, you really only find these downtown, so it wasn't a hard thing to do to avoid them, but here in New York, they are everywhere. Most restaurants and stores keep their supplies and stock underneath the actual place of business, so during work hours they can be open a lot and less of a hazard. Obviously, I'm not going to intentionally walk into a giant hole in the ground. However, when it's early morning or late at night and they're closed, I avoid them at all costs. The worst is when the sidewalk is so crowded that there is no way to avoid them and I just suck it up and walk over it. One time, I even tried to test Adrian's reflexes and pretended that one was loose and I made a noise like I was falling. He didn't even notice. He said I should have told him what I was trying to do, but hello that's the point. A loose grate isn't going to announce itself. Anyways, the whole point is that when I tell most people about this fear, I get the mocking laugh or the eyeroll, and then the pronouncement about what a lame fear it is. But not today, people. Today, on the news, there was a dramatic rescue story about a woman who fell through a grate on a Manhattan sidewalk. A dramatic rescue story. Not just a simple, "Oh, you fell, let's pick you back up" story. This woman was in a neck brace, she was covered in muck, and there were at least twenty rescue workers in the vicinity. She was rushed off to the hospital in an ambulance. I couldn't even bear to hear how far she fell. And while I'm glad to see my fear is not completely unwarranted, I feel for her and her probable new fear of my old fear.

5.15.2007

BAND-AID SEASON

My poor feet. I recently bought a pair of new wedge espadrille sandals for our upcoming trip to Bermuda. I was thinking they would also be good for our Europe and Caribbean visits later this summer. I hadn't had a chance to wear them here in the city because it still hasn't been hot enough, but today is beautiful so I decided to premiere them. Well, it's not that the sandals themselves are uncomfortable. It's that my feet have been ensconsed in boots, sneakers or other footwear that requires socks for the last six months (or on any sort of quick errand, they've been in my beloved flip-flops). None of those provide any sort of friction on toes or ankles. But wear new sandals on winter-spoiled feet and you're bound to hurt. Adrian does't get it. Most men don't get it, but women know and understand. Sometimes (most times?) looking good requires a little pain - and a little blood.

5.09.2007

"WHO WANTS TO BE...ON TV?"

Last night, I accomplished one of my many life goals. I passed the "Who Wants to Be a Millionaire?" audition test (and so did Adrian)! Remember now that I failed it over a year ago, and then once again just last week. This time, though, we heard from our friend Mark, who was in the group of people who auditioned right ahead of us that he had passed and both Adrian and I were determined to pass. How could we live it down if Mark passed and we didn't? When they read off the numbers of those who could stay and be interviewed (all those who had passed), they read off Adrian's first and I was so proud! Then they read mine and I couldn't believe it. It does need to be said that the test yesterday was the easiest of the three I'd taken. I went for my first interview and that went well enough that the girl asked me to stay for a second interview. (Mark got a second interview; Adrian did not.) I snuck a glance at my application when I was talking to the second guy and the first girl had written "Cute!" on my application, which I take as a very good sign. The second guy had a 6-month-old, so luckily, we were able to bond about babies and all that. Only three in Mark's group and six in my group got asked for a second interview, so I'm keeping my fingers crossed. We should all hear back in a few weeks via a mailed postcard telling us whether or not we're on the show. Either way, it was great fun, especially being able to share it with Adrian and Mark.

5.08.2007

CS/14

Walking down Amsterdam today to get some ice cream after our lunch, we were just about to pass Sarabeth's restaurant when Adrian started squeezing my hand hard enough to get my attention. Luckily, I was wearing sunglasses so I could look around without being too noticeable. Sitting at an outdoor table was Cate Blanchett and her husband. They were facing us and sitting across from them was a guy smoking a cigarette. I made a point to turn around once we'd passed to get a look at the guy, and I think it could have been Kevin Spacey, but I'm not sure and when we walked by again after getting my Grasshopper Pie cone, they were gone. The funny thing is that when we were talking about lunch options today, we discussed going to Sarabeth's, but ultimately decided against it.

5.04.2007

FRIDAY DRIBBLE

My trainer, Charlotte, would be happy to know that all the squats and lunges and bicep/tricep work she puts me through came into good use today when I went one-on-one with Adrian in a basketball game in Riverside Park. (Okay, it wasn't an actual game, more a bunch of shooting and dribbling, but I more than held my own.) I honestly think the last time I shot a basketball was when I was a sports camp counselor for five to seven-year-olds back when I was sixteen. I played basketball for two years in elementary school, and the most vivid memory I have of a single game is the one where I was knocked down and my glasses went flying down the court, leaving me completely blind and powerless until the referee brought them back to me. It was terrifying and led to both my quick escape from that sport and my request for contacts shortly thereafter. Today, however, with one Lasik surgery and many training sessions down, I wasn't half bad. I even practiced some Steve Nash one-handed passes and layups. I don't think I'm ready for the weekend crowd at the park, but I think I can handle being the only ones on the court during a weekday. And all the babies being pushed in the strollers just loved us. Not a one passed by without a smile for the couple playing some basketball on a beautiful Friday.